Women’s Language Rights!
Women’s
Language Rights!
Why is the
language women speak not taken seriously?
Picture this: you’re a woman, about to sit that all-important
job interview you’ve spent days preparing for. You’re highly qualified and
perfect for the job, but you’re rejected because – drum roll, please – of the
way you speak.
How is it, in any way, fair that a man who is less qualified
is more likely to get the job than this woman, because his language is more ‘assertive’?
It isn’t, and it needs to change.
Let me tell you a fact that might surprise you: men and women
speak the same language. There is no such thing as one gender’s specific ‘language’
being superior to the other; they’re identical. So why is it that we still
insist on pointing out the ‘differences’ in the language between men and women,
and worse still, using it as a form of discrimination against women?
The theory for looking at gender differences in language in
the present day is called the Diversity model. This is the idea that gender is
only one of many factors that may influence language. This means that it is
likely there will be more differences between two women’s speech than between a
man and a woman’s. And before you ask, this isn’t just a thought a person with
politically correct views plucked from thin air – it’s based off scientific research,
aka, it’s a fact.
And yet this form of discrimination against ‘women’s language’
is more like the Deficit model from the 1920’s – the idea that men’s speech is the
‘standard’ language, and that women’s falls short and is…well, deficient. This theory
sprung to life mainly based off the opinions of a patriarchal society, because
it was said that ‘women’s language’ mainly consists of linguistic features such
as hedges or tag questions, which makes a woman seem less sure of herself. It’s
not the 1920’s anymore, and yet this pretty much sums up why the underqualified
man is more likely to get the job in my example earlier.
Well, guess what – men use all these linguistic features too,
and women are not less confident than
men. In fact, we are just like any other person in the sense that if we’re
going after something we want, we have never been more confident. We need to stop telling women to speak more like
men to get on in the world – everyone deserves to speak however they want to.
So, one more time, louder for the people in the back: gender is
just one factor of differences in
language.

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